Amaladate

Safety Guidelines

Your safety is our priority. Please read these guidelines before meeting anyone from Amaladate.

In case of emergency

If you feel unsafe or threatened, call the Nigerian Police immediately:

Emergency: 112 or 767

Meeting in Person

✓ Always meet in public places

Choose busy, well-lit restaurants or cafes. The amala spots on Amaladate are public locations, which is perfect for first dates.

✓ Tell someone where you're going

Let a friend or family member know: where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back. Share your location if possible.

✓ Arrange your own transportation

Come and leave independently. Don't accept rides from someone you just met, and don't feel obligated to reveal your home address.

✓ Stay sober and alert

Avoid excessive alcohol consumption. Never leave your food or drink unattended, and don't accept drinks from someone else unless you watched it being prepared.

✓ Keep your phone charged

Ensure your phone is fully charged so you can call for help or transportation if needed.

Trust Your Instincts

🚩 Red Flags to Watch For

  • Requests for money or financial help
  • Pressure to move too quickly (meet immediately, declare feelings)
  • Reluctance to meet in public or video chat first
  • Inconsistent stories or information
  • Aggressive, rude, or disrespectful behavior
  • Requests for personal financial information

If something feels wrong

Trust your gut. You have every right to end a date early, cancel plans, or decline to meet someone. Your safety and comfort come first.

Before You Meet

Take your time

Don't feel pressured to meet immediately. Get to know the person through the app first. Ask questions and have meaningful conversations.

Verify their identity

Look out for verified profiles (when available). Be cautious of profiles with only one photo or stock-looking photos.

Plan the date together

Make sure you're both comfortable with the time and location. Confirm the day before.

Protecting Your Privacy

Be careful what you share

Avoid sharing:

  • Your home address
  • Your workplace location
  • Your financial information
  • Detailed daily routines

Use the app's features

Keep conversations on Amaladate initially. Once you're comfortable, you can exchange phone numbers, but you're never obligated to.

Report Suspicious Behavior

If you encounter any of the following, please report the user immediately:

  • Fake profiles or stolen photos
  • Requests for money or financial scams
  • Harassment or threatening behavior
  • Inappropriate or sexual content
  • Spam or promotional messages
  • Underage users

To report: Contact us at [email protected] with details and screenshots if possible.

Additional Safety Tips

Split the bill: Offer to pay for your own meal to avoid any sense of obligation.

Set boundaries: Be clear about your expectations and comfort level. Don't feel pressured to do anything you're not comfortable with.

Cancel if needed: If something comes up or you change your mind, it's okay to cancel. Do so respectfully with advance notice when possible.

Check in with friends: Let someone know when you've arrived safely and when you're leaving.

Remember

Most people on Amaladate are genuinely looking to connect over a shared love of amala. These guidelines help ensure everyone has a safe, enjoyable experience. Trust your instincts, take precautions, and don't hesitate to reach out if you need help.