Your safety is our priority. Please read these guidelines before meeting anyone from Amaladate.
If you feel unsafe or threatened, call the Nigerian Police immediately:
Emergency: 112 or 767
Choose busy, well-lit restaurants or cafes. The amala spots on Amaladate are public locations, which is perfect for first dates.
Let a friend or family member know: where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back. Share your location if possible.
Come and leave independently. Don't accept rides from someone you just met, and don't feel obligated to reveal your home address.
Avoid excessive alcohol consumption. Never leave your food or drink unattended, and don't accept drinks from someone else unless you watched it being prepared.
Ensure your phone is fully charged so you can call for help or transportation if needed.
Trust your gut. You have every right to end a date early, cancel plans, or decline to meet someone. Your safety and comfort come first.
Don't feel pressured to meet immediately. Get to know the person through the app first. Ask questions and have meaningful conversations.
Look out for verified profiles (when available). Be cautious of profiles with only one photo or stock-looking photos.
Make sure you're both comfortable with the time and location. Confirm the day before.
Avoid sharing:
Keep conversations on Amaladate initially. Once you're comfortable, you can exchange phone numbers, but you're never obligated to.
If you encounter any of the following, please report the user immediately:
To report: Contact us at [email protected] with details and screenshots if possible.
Split the bill: Offer to pay for your own meal to avoid any sense of obligation.
Set boundaries: Be clear about your expectations and comfort level. Don't feel pressured to do anything you're not comfortable with.
Cancel if needed: If something comes up or you change your mind, it's okay to cancel. Do so respectfully with advance notice when possible.
Check in with friends: Let someone know when you've arrived safely and when you're leaving.
Most people on Amaladate are genuinely looking to connect over a shared love of amala. These guidelines help ensure everyone has a safe, enjoyable experience. Trust your instincts, take precautions, and don't hesitate to reach out if you need help.